Identify me as
Activity
Experience (yes/no)
Giver or Receiver
(preference, if applies)
Willingness (NO or 0-5)
Notes and Nuances
Abrasion
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Age play
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Anal sex
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Anal plugs (small)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Anal plugs (large)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Anal plug (public, under clothes)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Animal roles
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Aromas
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Asphyxiation
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Auctioned for charity
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Ball stretching
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Bathroom use control
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Beastiality
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Beating (soft)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Beating (hard)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Blindfolds
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Being serviced (sexual)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Being bitten
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Boot worship
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Bondage (light)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Bondage (heavy)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Bondage (multi-day)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Bondage (public, under clothing)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Branding
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Breast/chest bondage
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Breast whipping
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Breath control
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Brown showers (scat)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Bruises
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Cages (locked inside of)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Caning
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Castration fantasy
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Catheterization
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Cattle prod (electrical toy)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Cells/Closets (locked inside of)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Chains
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Chamber-pot use
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Chastity belts (short term)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Chastity belts (multi-day)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Chauffeuring (driving)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Choking
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Chores (domestic service)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Clothespins
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Cock rings/straps
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Cock worship
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Collars (worn in private)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Collars (worn in public)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Competitions (with other Subs)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Corsets (wearing casually)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Corsets (trained waist reduction)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Cross-dressing
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Cuffs (leather)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Cuffs (metal)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Cutting
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Diapers (wearing)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Diapers (wetting)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Diapers (soiling)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Dilation
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Dildoes
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Double penetration
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Electricity
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Enemas (for cleansing)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Enemas (retention/punishment)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Enforced chastity
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Erotic dance (for audience)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Examinations (physical)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Exercise (forced/required)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Exhibitionism (friends)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Exhibitionism (strangers)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Eye contact restrictions
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Face slapping
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Fantasy abandonment
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Fantasy rape
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Fantasy gang-rape
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Fear (being scared)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Fisting (anal)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Fisting (vaginal)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Flame play
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Following orders
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Foot worship
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Forced bedwetting
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Forced dressing
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Forced eating
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Forced homosexuality
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Forced heterosexuality
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Forced masturbation
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Forced nudity (private)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Forced nudity (around others)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Forced servitude
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Forced smoking
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Full head hoods
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Gags (cloth)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Gags (inflatable)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Gags (phallic)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Gags (rubber)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Gags (tape)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Gas masks
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Gates of Hell (male)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Genital sex
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Given away to another Dom (temp)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Given away to another Dom (perm)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Golden showers
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Gun play
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Hairbrush spankings
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Hair pulling
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Hand jobs (giving)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Hand jobs (receiving)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Harems (serving w/other subs)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Harnessing (leather)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Harnessing (rope)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Having food chosen for you
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Having clothing chosen for you
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Head (recv fellatio/cunnilingus)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
High heel wearing
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
High heel worship
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Homage with tongue (non-sexual)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Hoods
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Hot oils (on genitals)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Hot waxing
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Housework (doing)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Human puppy dog
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Humiliation (private)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Humiliation (public)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Hypnotism
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Ice cubes
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Immobilization
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Infantilism
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Initiation rites
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Injections
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Interrogations
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Kidnaping
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Kneeling
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Knife play
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Leather clothing
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Leather restraints
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Lectures for misbehavior
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Licking (non-sexual)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Lingerie (wearing)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Manacles & Irons
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Manicures (giving)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Massage (giving)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Massage (receiving)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Medical scenes
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Modeling for erotic photos
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Mouth bits
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Mummification
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Name change (for scene)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Name change (legal, permanent)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Nipple clamps
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Nipple rings (piercings)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Nipple play/"torture"
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Nipple weights
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Oral/anal play (rimming)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Over-the-knee spanking
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Orgasm denial
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Orgasm control
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Outdoor scenes
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Outdoor sex
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Pain (mild)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Pain (medium)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Pain (severe)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Persona training (in scene)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Personality modification (RL)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Phone sex (serving Dom)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Phone sex (commercial provider)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Piercing (permanent)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Plastic surgery
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Prison scenes
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Prostitution (public pretense)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Prostitution (actual)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Pony slave
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Public exposure
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Punishment Scene
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Pussy/cock whipping
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Pussy worship
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Riding crops
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Riding the "horse" (crotch torture)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Rituals
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Religious scenes
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Restrictive rules on behavior
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Rubber/latex clothing
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Rope body harness
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Saran wrapping
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Scarification
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Scratching - getting
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Scratching - giving
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Sensory deprivation
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Serving
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Serving as art
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Serving as ashtray
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Serving as furniture
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Serving as a maid
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Serving as toilet (urine)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Serving as toilet (feces)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Serving as waitress/waiter
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Serving orally (sexual)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Serving other doms (supervised)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Serving other doms (unsupervised)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Sexual deprivation (short term)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Sexual deprivation (long term)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Shaving (body hair)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Shaving (genital hair)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Shaving (head hair)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Skinny-dipping
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Sleep deprivation
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Sleepsacks
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Slutty clothing (private)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Slutty clothing (public)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Spandex clothing
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Spanking
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Speech restrictions (when, what)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Speculums (Anal)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Speculums (vaginal)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Spitting
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Spreader bars
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Standing in corner
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Stocks
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Straight jackets
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Strap-on-dildos (wearing)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Strapping (full body beating)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Suspension (upright)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Suspension (inverted)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Suspension (horizontal)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Supplying new partners for Dom
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Swallowing feces
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Swallowing semen
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Swallowing urine
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Swapping (with one other couple)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Swinging (multiple couples)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Tampon Training (in ass)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Tattooing
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Teasing
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
TENS Unit (electrical toy)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Thumbcuffs (metal)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Tickling
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Triple penetration
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Urethral Sounds (metal rods)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Uniforms
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Including others
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Vaginal dildo
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Verbal humiliation
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Vibrator on genitals
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Violet Wand (electrical toy)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Voyeurism (watching others)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Video (watching others)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Video (recordings of you)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Water torture
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Waxing (hair removal)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Wearing symbolic jewelry
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Weight gain (forced)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Weight loss (forced)
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Whipping
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Wooden paddles
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5
Wrestling
Yes
No
Top
Bottom
No
0
1
2
3
4
5